♦ COA Retreats ♦

Curated Getaways for Discreet Asian Men

• Private villas • Small groups • Tours • Connection • Clothing-Optional • 

• All-Inclusive Pricing •

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A private space for Gay Asian men to feel free.

COA Retreats are designed for gay Asian men who want connection, belonging, and a place to be themselves — without the pressure of bars, apps, or circuit parties.

Most of our participants come alone, but we happily accommodate couples too.

You may arrive a stranger, but everyone leaves as friends!

Our retreats are warm, fun and thoughtfully designed to balance action and relaxation.
Been to Bangkok many times but still got new experiences with yummy food, great massages, making new friends. To top it off, everything was planned in advance and arranged. Felt so pampered. Thank you for a very memorable weekend. When can we go again?!
RK
RKBangkok Retreat
First time attending and got many first experiences with the group. Despite that, I felt very safe and was able to be myself around them. Everything was great and I am glad that I decided to go for it.
PT
PTSiem Reap Retreat
The highlight of this weekend retreat was the Chao Phraya Dinner Cruise — my very first time, even though I’ve visited Bangkok almost every year! Sharing the evening with a wonderful group of kindred spirits made it truly magical… everything just felt extra joyful with your tribe.
TT
TTBangkok Retreat

Relaxed, Meaningful Travel

Good food, beautiful scenery, quiet mornings, fun afternoons, and real friendship.

Fun but Discreet

Private villas, small groups (10 - 14 men), and a chill, yet cheeky vibe.

For Gay Asian Men

Led by intercultural hosts who understand Asian culture, stories, and lived experiences.

What You Can Expect

  • Calm mornings, active afternoons, fun evenings

  • Immersive group travel experiences – Nature, Adventure, Local Culture, Culinary and Self-Care

  • Bonding games and activities

  • Luxe private villas with clothing-optional pool; private or shared bedrooms

  • Time to yourself whenever you need it

  • A warm community of men with similar stories

  • Daily breakfast, lunch, dinner + happy hour included

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FAQ

Of course! Our retreats are great for solo travellers seeking to make new connections. You have a choice of a shared or solo room too.

No worries there – that’s why it’s optional! However, we request that all participants respect each other and observe the hygiene do’s and don’ts, and general etiquette spelled out in our House Rules.

We have a wide range of ages from 20s to 50s coming for our retreats. Currently, the median age is mid-30s to mid-40s.

Each retreat has a unique villa setup. In most villas there is a choice of shared rooms or private rooms.

Discretion and privacy are of utmost importance to us. We have strict rules around the taking and sharing of photos/videos; and we welcome everyone – especially those who are closeted and seeking a safe space to explore being themselves.

Our trips are a welcoming and non-judgemental space for all body-types and ages. We want guests to feel comfortable in their own skin!

We request a 50% deposit to secure your spot. This is fully refundable within 48 hours, and partially refundable up to a specific date before each retreat. Cancellation details for each retreat are spelled out when you add a booking to your shopping cart.

Participation fees for retreats and getaways are inclusive of all activities, meals

and transportation to and from the airport, unless otherwise noted. 

They do not include any airfare.

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